People

People | I Survived
Riding Toward Danger: My Tinder Date on Horseback

Horses were my safest of sanctuaries. Nothing bad would happen.

Jan 8, 2018
People | Other Selves
The Old Man Who Fought Boko Haram

“Who was this self-appointed vigilante of this street of ours? Why was he so invalid? No one seemed to have a story about him.”

Jan 4, 2018
People | Mates
Daddy Issues, or Not: When You Marry a Much Older Man

I know it’s not supposed to work this way. We damaged daughters should seek healing in therapy, not romantic relationships.

Jan 3, 2018
People | Phobia
Emetophobia and Why Purity Culture Won’t Save Us

There is a belief that healthy lives are rewards for correct behavior, and illness and death are earned through insufficient devotion.

Jan 2, 2018
People | Losing My Religion
Glory in the Floorlamps: How the Theatre Became My Church

Both church and theatre demand from their followers the suspension of disbelief, and the ability to inhabit an imaginary set of circumstances in lieu of the known.

Jan 2, 2018
People | Believers
How Falling in Love Made Me Rethink the Priesthood

My earlier, naïve idea of Catholicism was shaped by an elevation of the priesthood. I did not see the sacramental worth in love, family, everyday life.

Dec 21, 2017
People | Bodies
Disfiguration: How to Locate the Soul in Your New Face

Here is how the story of your new face begins.

Dec 21, 2017
People | Diagnosis
The Land Without Shoelaces and Sharps: Two Misdiagnoses

For seven years, I lived afraid of my own mind, only to learn it had been a mistake.

Dec 20, 2017
People | Mates
Why I’m Letting My Best Friend Haunt Me

“The symptoms of anxiety and the symptoms of a haunting are so similar.”

Dec 14, 2017
People | Generations
In the Kingdom of Tamarac: Shuffleboard and Other Acts of Remembrance

What I knew about my grandparents was enough to fill every hidden closet, every secret candy drawer.

Dec 13, 2017