Arts & Culture

Arts & Culture | Housing
New York, I Love You—But Are You Bringing Me Down?

What parts of me are still fed by my New York environment? Are other parts of me getting hungrier? For more, or for something else entirely?

Jan 26, 2023
Arts & Culture | Food
My Kwik Trip Gas Station Has Always Been There for Me

I want to preserve this old gas station because it feels like preserving myself.

Jan 25, 2023
Arts & Culture | Food
Nigerian Food Is Evolving In America—So Am I

Whether one calls it “adaptation” or “assimilation” is a matter of one’s personal politics. But I—like the food I love—am undoubtedly changing.

Jan 24, 2023
Arts & Culture | Food
An Ode to Kraft Dinner, Food of Troubled Times

While the world has continued to change, Kraft’s product has remained the same, somehow evading inflation at one or two dollars per box.

Jan 19, 2023
Arts & Culture | Video Games
Is HBO’s “The Last of Us” Anything Like the Games?

For all of its commitment to diverse representation, the game was fundamentally another apocalypse story about the reproduction of white patriarchal violence.

Jan 19, 2023
Family | Arts & Culture | Parenting
Untangling the Horrors of Being Parented Resentfully

In the ‘Beloved,’ ‘The Baby,’ and ‘Barbarian,’ Black women grapple with vengeful mothers and children. In my life, I’ve broken that cycle.

Jan 12, 2023
Arts & Culture | Style
What Is “Skin-First” Beauty Actually Selling?

Rebranding beauty rituals as self-acceptance does nothing to remove the obligation that says we must aspire to be beautiful.

Jan 11, 2023
Arts & Culture | Television
Learning to Take Risks Like the Queer Pirates in ‘Our Flag Means Death’

Love and connection require emotional risk. After the harrowing nature of the last three years, I needed ‘Our Flag Means Death’ to remind me.

Jan 9, 2023
Arts & Culture | Television
What “The Mindy Project” Did (and Didn’t Do) for Brown Girls on TV

The critiques Mindy Kaling received shaped the representation we see on-screen today as much as her successes did.

Jan 5, 2023
Arts & Culture | Music
Prince Taught Me a Whole New Love Language

“Sign o’ the Times” is candy for a cute little he/they like me.

Jan 4, 2023