“I am unmoored, my place not easily defined, my presence not immediately understood.”
Certainly we can’t force people to marry people they don’t want to. But to me, the idea of inviting my parents into the selection process is not such a radical idea.
“What I know is this: Some part of me, however small, is already dead. I live around it.”
I want to surround myself with people who argue with me, for I learn so much more from these conversations.
She told me that if I took her picture my camera would break, but I smiled and asked to try. Two weeks later my camera broke.
It wasn’t just that Antarctica was no place for women—it was expressly a place for men.
Carter’s characters rarely do what one might expect. Reading her work just gives you a jolt.
“We were free and naïve enough to believe we could navigate the terrain of men’s hunger and their hands unscathed.”
“Migraine is deceptive pain. It lies when it begins, and it lies about what it signifies. It signifies nothing.”
I needed those moments of tangible Native-ness, because I was never sure if I was Native enough.