Columns | Eldest Immigrant Daughter

Lessons On Diasporic Identity from Meme Culture

There was something mutually exclusive about being either an eldest immigrant daughter or a normal, well-adjusted adult.

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idk which daughter of immigrants needs to hear this but if you have the means, move out. your family will get over it

Eldest immigrant daughter vs accepting help and things from others challenge

the only people allowed to “hate” kids are eldest daughters in immigrant households

The casual use of dark humor and internet speech as a vehicle for diasporic angst reasserts the meme’s thesis: Eldest immigrant daughters have seen some shit—but haha no worries, we’re used to it.

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vaginal discharge vaginal dischargeOh god, what if she thinks I’m trying to tell her she’s having a miscarriage?

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Mental illness and family honor don’t pair well together. And, in my experience, tending to a mental illness can feel frivolous when I consider how much more privileged my life has been compared to older generations in my family. My parents came of age under state-sanctioned antisemitism and immigrated to America with little money, no jobs, and a young child. My grandmother lost her father at twelve, when he was murdered by the KGB as an enemy of the state. My great-grandparents fled their homes and lived in hiding for years to evade Nazi massacre. Compared to all that, what do I have to be anxious about?

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